Pablo
Referees in England
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Ok, so how do you all get on with balancing your relationships against rugby? The reason I ask is because this morning, the girlfriend (with whom I live) threw a strop at me for spending both days this weekend refereeing.
Some background: we both have busy jobs (I'm a management consultant, she's a corporate solicitor), mine frequently requires me to travel (Athens and Paris last week, Warsaw and Basel a fortnight ago). So our weekends are pretty much our only quality time together. But equally, I'm being pushed by my Society for promotion to Fed and Group.
Given that this girl's a keeper, my question is - how have others combined the professional, personal and rugby components of their lives? Is it possible to have a successful professional career, a high-flying refereeing career and a satisfied other half? Or should I stop kidding myself and remove myself from the running for a Group spot (because, as much as I would like to succeed in rugby, a) it doesn't pay the mortgage and b) I don't want to marry it)?
All advice gratefully received.
Some background: we both have busy jobs (I'm a management consultant, she's a corporate solicitor), mine frequently requires me to travel (Athens and Paris last week, Warsaw and Basel a fortnight ago). So our weekends are pretty much our only quality time together. But equally, I'm being pushed by my Society for promotion to Fed and Group.
Given that this girl's a keeper, my question is - how have others combined the professional, personal and rugby components of their lives? Is it possible to have a successful professional career, a high-flying refereeing career and a satisfied other half? Or should I stop kidding myself and remove myself from the running for a Group spot (because, as much as I would like to succeed in rugby, a) it doesn't pay the mortgage and b) I don't want to marry it)?
All advice gratefully received.