i am assessing on Sundays these days to help our club refs and helping blood some youngsters ...
i assessed a guy recently
i just didnt know what to say ....
U14s
kick off was set for 11:00 ... actually kicked off @ 11:07
first prematch brief was at 10:54
didnt mention 'crouch, touch, set'
scrum collapsed .. he played on
blew final whistle when he had just awarded a penalty to the losing team
etc etc
i couldnt think of 3 good things ..
line outs were ok, good gap and positioning
what do you do on such occasions?
Hi ex-Lucy, good to be hearing from you again
With any person who you find to be struggling, I try to establish the context. I'm looking to see if he has the potential, so I find out how much training he has had and learning he has carried out. If it transpires his poor performance is a training / support issue, you tackle it in a very different way that you would an ability issue. So, its important to establish the cause.
I worked at a school which had a staff turn over which would have shamed a kamakaze squadroon. My team were great, they stayed on, but I made sure they got access to top level training and they never got the poor perfromance reviews many others did. During a DofE inspection they were described by an HMI as outstanding, but (and I joke not) took the shine off the victory when the HMI found them doing a conga down the classroom corridor singing "We are all outstanding, we are all outstanding" to the tune of "We're on our way to Wembley". The point I'm making is that his poor performance could be down to poor preparation opportunities offered by his society.
Depending on what I found out I might have said. "OK. you've got the potential to be a good ref, but today showed up a lack of training which we must put right straight away"
Don't automatically feel you've got to ask him first what he thought, then say something nice before launching into the "needs work" section. We are all quite bright (if sometimes opinionated) people in the refs world. What we want is hard, useful constructive feedback. However, questions to him can help establish the context of his performance.
When I started to play prop, a whizened old LH used to tell me tricks when I played against him in training. These would have taken me seasons to learn, but just a minute to be taught. Its the same with advising. Lay out clearly where he is, then if he has a mentor they can work out a programme, or if not, you and/or the society can work out what to attack and when.