Dixie
A L5 league match will never come my way and I can accept that at this level a different approach to mine is appropriate. I do however ref a lot of L9-L12 games where the fact that a side has turned up with 15 players is a real bonus. I also ref a lot of junior games. These types of games will certainly have influenced my approach to refereeing. Also think back to your own playing days and how you felt about turning out for the next match after a thorough drubbing. I'd rather a side miss out on the league championship by a 10 point point margin rather than the team at the bottom of the league withdraw from the league because this season they've been stuffed by 60 points every game.
We all know that there are those 50-50 moments in a game where we decide whether or not to ping a feed which might/might not be crooked. If a side is 50 points up then my eyesight is such that that 50-50 balance changes. I am not creating offences merely colouring my judgement IN THE INTEREST OF THE GAME (i.e. RUGBY) AND IT'S FUTURE.
I have also mentioned to coaches of sides that are thrashing another side that they may find some calls going against them. Never have I received and criticism. Rarely do I let the losing side know that I've reffed to try to keep them interested in the game (patronising).
A week ago I was assessed and the assessor appreciated that I'd kept the losing team (who were being well and truly tonked) interested in the game and was pleased I'd blown up a few minutes early at the end. And yes, it was a league game.
Of interest was it beneficial for Manchester, last season, to have been pasted every game. Was it good for those (brave?) players to turn out every week to see a triple figure score against them? Was it good for the sport? When the score was 110-0 would you still have stopped the clock for injuries? I know I certainly wouldn't have.