I am reminded of a colt's match I refereed some seasons back. The match was played between a 'Junior' club, yellow, and a 'Senior' club, blue. Blue were physically larger and in the prematch warm up, clearly more skilful. If asked before KO, I would have said that I would be blowing for the end long before time was up on the basis of the fifty point differential!!! What a shock I received.
From the KO, yellow chased and tackled like demons. Every tackle was around the thighs and driving the ball carrier backwards and to ground, form a ruck and then drive blue off. If they gained possession outside of Blue's 22, they would simply kick it into the centre of the 22 and wait for blue to try to run it out. The tactics were brutal, hard but fair. From memory, I cannot recall giving a penalty against yellow other than for a couple of offsides. However, as blue became more and more frustrated, so the penalty count against them grew and, as the match was played almost entirely in their 22, so yellow kicked the penalties so that at half-time, yellow were twenty points or so up.
Twenty minutes into the match, I could hear the blue coaches shouting at me for not penalising dangerous tackles and, eventually, one of them came onto the pitch and stated that this is not how rugby should be played. Every tackle was dangerous, I was letting yellow get away with high and late tackles and I had better do something about it!!!!!!
Having quietly admonished him for entering the pitch without my consent and warning him that if he were to do so again, I would send him back to the distant clubhouse, the match continued.
At half-time, this coach called his team together and without notifying anyone, marched them off, had them change and drove them off.
This was a North Midlands Cup match. There were several hundred people watching including a group of trainee referees and their three trainors. In the clubhouse afterwards, I could find no-one who had any idea as to why this team had been taken off. There were no dangerous tackles, no high tackles, no late tackles, punches, kicks, stamps. It was simply a team playing a very hard tackling, no prisoners taken form of rugby. Not allowing the opposition any time to settle on the ball or develop their playing style and as a result, winning the match.
When approached by the NM for their side of the story, the response was the referee had totally lost control of the match and he had removed his team for safety reasons. Since this view was totally at odds with the view of three senior and very experienced referees on the touchline, the home team coach and several spectators, his club's junior sides were banned from entering all NM competitions for two seasons.
To this day, I am firmly of the opinion that he took his team off because they were being totally hammered by a 'junior' club and he simply could not cope with this 'disgrace'.
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