Really not sure about this. Thought about it long and hard at the time.
Last ten minutes of a really good natured match. Apart from one ten metres after about 6 minutes there had been absolutely no dissent or appealing. A great match in many ways.
Then.................Black runs out of defence, I award a penalty for a high tackle by White against Black. White centre disputed the decision with a "that wasn't high" and I push the penalty ten metres further on. He then comes up to me and puts his face right facing me and stares in a very aggressive manner. There was certainly no question that he was trying to intimidate me. I called the captain over and told him that this was dissent and that the player would be receiving a yellow card. The captain got the player to me and I explained to the player that the aggressive look was dissent and therefore he would be receiving a yellow card. The player then walked off and then turned and looked at me and said "I want to know your association and your name" and then he walked off towards the touch line. I decided that this was further dissent and called the captain over and explained that for his comments and further dissent there would be a second yellow and therefore a red.By now the player had gone to the touchline and the captain and I went over, called the player back on the pitch and issued a second yellow and then a red card. The player then said to the captain "I want to know how to appeal this" and turned to me and said "Have a fantastic day".
Silly yes, a bit of a knob yes, but too harsh? I am reminded of a senior referee who said to me a few months ago to remember that for other fellow referees "I am my brother's keeper" and I have to be fair to the ref following next week. Dissent has no place in the game, certainly I felt the aggression.
But could I or should I have done something different? My assessor on the day felt on the basis that the player was not going to come back on as there was only 9 minutes left,perhaps I could have left it at that..........that, frankly didn't feel right to me, but always up for learning.
:norc: or not?
Last ten minutes of a really good natured match. Apart from one ten metres after about 6 minutes there had been absolutely no dissent or appealing. A great match in many ways.
Then.................Black runs out of defence, I award a penalty for a high tackle by White against Black. White centre disputed the decision with a "that wasn't high" and I push the penalty ten metres further on. He then comes up to me and puts his face right facing me and stares in a very aggressive manner. There was certainly no question that he was trying to intimidate me. I called the captain over and told him that this was dissent and that the player would be receiving a yellow card. The captain got the player to me and I explained to the player that the aggressive look was dissent and therefore he would be receiving a yellow card. The player then walked off and then turned and looked at me and said "I want to know your association and your name" and then he walked off towards the touch line. I decided that this was further dissent and called the captain over and explained that for his comments and further dissent there would be a second yellow and therefore a red.By now the player had gone to the touchline and the captain and I went over, called the player back on the pitch and issued a second yellow and then a red card. The player then said to the captain "I want to know how to appeal this" and turned to me and said "Have a fantastic day".
Silly yes, a bit of a knob yes, but too harsh? I am reminded of a senior referee who said to me a few months ago to remember that for other fellow referees "I am my brother's keeper" and I have to be fair to the ref following next week. Dissent has no place in the game, certainly I felt the aggression.
But could I or should I have done something different? My assessor on the day felt on the basis that the player was not going to come back on as there was only 9 minutes left,perhaps I could have left it at that..........that, frankly didn't feel right to me, but always up for learning.
:norc: or not?