Everybody - thanks for the many thought-provoking posts (and the p!ss-taking ones - Phil and Lee, I'm looking at you!
)
To address a few posts:
- My avatar is Avril Lavigne, left over from the solidarity-with-Nick's-Celine-Dion phase. I haven't got around to changing it back.
- I don't
have to referee both days of a weekend - the weekend just gone and the one just coming are flukes because of snow cancellations. It's just Sod's Law that they're back to back. In hindsight, I should have cancelled the less important game from the past weekend as soon as I knew that the snow game was being moved to Sunday.
- At no stage am I suggesting that I would "give up rugby for her", and neither would she ask me to - but I
would seriously consider no longer pushing my career forwards and settling down at L6 for as long as my legs can cope.
- Didn't try crying. Good suggestion though - might break that out in the future
- Padster - my sincere sympathies to you and the family. Also, many thanks for posting - it's the most eye-opening message on the thread, and can't have been easy for you to share.
All of which leads me to the frank chat that she and I had last night. She is quite understanding of how important rugby is to me, and doesn't want me to quit on the possibility of further promotions. However, I'm going to have to work a little harder at squeezing relationship stuff into the gaps between rugby and work - starting by standing my ground with appointments folk to avoid double-headers.
If and when promotion to Group happens, we'll re-assess the time commitment, and see what the right course of action is.
Thanks all, and apologies to beckett for making him think he'd clicked the wrong link in his favourites :Zip: