Hi,
I reffed my son's team on the weekend and they happened to lose. They had been unbeaten all season and lost this last game.
At the end I shook hands with the opposition who thanked me for the game. With the exception of one player from my son's team no one bothered to do this. The one lad who bothered stated that if I was there next year, he wouldn't be. Didn't say much to that really. He later came over and apologized for his comments which I accepted.
All through the game I could hear comments from the side and I was stupid enough to answer some of them. I didn't think I'd had a bad game which my father in law confirmed that night.
During the game I was constantly being asked how long to go, and this got a little cross and I threatened a yellow card for the next person to ask. No more than a minute later one of the kids did and I was 'talked' out of any penalty as the player in question claimed not to have heard me. Was this a mistake? Probably.
I had two players, one from each side, to have bloody noses and I stopped the game to get them seen to. The elicited groans/comments from the onlookers. I thought we were supposed to be above that sort of thing.
I was deflated after this game and I am in two minds as to whether I will referee the team next year. After chatting to 'er indoors, she reckons I shouldn't.
Apologies for the rant!
I reffed my son's team on the weekend and they happened to lose. They had been unbeaten all season and lost this last game.
At the end I shook hands with the opposition who thanked me for the game. With the exception of one player from my son's team no one bothered to do this. The one lad who bothered stated that if I was there next year, he wouldn't be. Didn't say much to that really. He later came over and apologized for his comments which I accepted.
All through the game I could hear comments from the side and I was stupid enough to answer some of them. I didn't think I'd had a bad game which my father in law confirmed that night.
During the game I was constantly being asked how long to go, and this got a little cross and I threatened a yellow card for the next person to ask. No more than a minute later one of the kids did and I was 'talked' out of any penalty as the player in question claimed not to have heard me. Was this a mistake? Probably.
I had two players, one from each side, to have bloody noses and I stopped the game to get them seen to. The elicited groans/comments from the onlookers. I thought we were supposed to be above that sort of thing.
I was deflated after this game and I am in two minds as to whether I will referee the team next year. After chatting to 'er indoors, she reckons I shouldn't.
Apologies for the rant!