I have thought about this a great deal. Have watched my lot go from 4 years old to U14. We are a great side and we've won nearly everything. This season we lost a few to school rugby, boarding school and one hissy fit...
We're facing relegation, but the boys are still just as committed.
Winning stuff hasn't made them worse people. I'd argue it's made them better people because they have one thing in their life that has shown them that together they can be great.
Now they are losing, they have perspective and take it with good grace.
Winning is never absolute. We have great rivals locally, one of whom we always beat in the final of the county championship. But, if you look at their website you will see the many things that they have won over the years.
I've watched development sides in London struggle into being and lose game after game. They grow stronger and then one day they win one and they feel great. Winning, in my view is the best feelings you can have. And when you win in a team, it really means something.
Having said that, I think when kids are young they don't necessarily need competitions which produce winners, but I've never seen them do much harm.
We're facing relegation, but the boys are still just as committed.
Winning stuff hasn't made them worse people. I'd argue it's made them better people because they have one thing in their life that has shown them that together they can be great.
Now they are losing, they have perspective and take it with good grace.
Winning is never absolute. We have great rivals locally, one of whom we always beat in the final of the county championship. But, if you look at their website you will see the many things that they have won over the years.
I've watched development sides in London struggle into being and lose game after game. They grow stronger and then one day they win one and they feel great. Winning, in my view is the best feelings you can have. And when you win in a team, it really means something.
Having said that, I think when kids are young they don't necessarily need competitions which produce winners, but I've never seen them do much harm.