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I have no objections to:
"winning or losing isn't the be all and end all" -Davet
" I'd rather my squad plays the best rugby it can and lose, than play poorly and win" - didds
Or any other philosophies holding that "the playing of the game is important"
What I object to is;
1. A system that does not even allow for the possibility of one player/team winning.
2. A system that discourages, in some cases, forbids the keeping of a score.
3. A system that rewards the winner(s) and loser(s) equally.
Sport, especially team sport, is about competition. Without winners and losers, the whole point of competition is lost. I don't want losers to feel good about themselves., I want them to feel bad, so that in itself becomes an incentive to avoid that feeling. This is how mediocrity becomes excellence.
I applied the same philosophy to refereeing. I would never go into a match "expecting" or "accepting" that I was going to make some mistakes; I went in with the intent and expectation that I would have an error free game. That it never happened is irrelevant, but that didn't mean that I should go into it expecting errors. I hated making mistakes on the field, and was hard on myself when I made them. I made absolutely sure that I learned from them.
Excellence and diligence go hand in hand. If you don't strive for excellence, you will never achieve it, and this is doubly so when losers are rewarded.
"winning or losing isn't the be all and end all" -Davet
" I'd rather my squad plays the best rugby it can and lose, than play poorly and win" - didds
Or any other philosophies holding that "the playing of the game is important"
What I object to is;
1. A system that does not even allow for the possibility of one player/team winning.
2. A system that discourages, in some cases, forbids the keeping of a score.
3. A system that rewards the winner(s) and loser(s) equally.
Sport, especially team sport, is about competition. Without winners and losers, the whole point of competition is lost. I don't want losers to feel good about themselves., I want them to feel bad, so that in itself becomes an incentive to avoid that feeling. This is how mediocrity becomes excellence.
I applied the same philosophy to refereeing. I would never go into a match "expecting" or "accepting" that I was going to make some mistakes; I went in with the intent and expectation that I would have an error free game. That it never happened is irrelevant, but that didn't mean that I should go into it expecting errors. I hated making mistakes on the field, and was hard on myself when I made them. I made absolutely sure that I learned from them.
Excellence and diligence go hand in hand. If you don't strive for excellence, you will never achieve it, and this is doubly so when losers are rewarded.
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