andyscott
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Not sure but I can think of plenty of other names for itis Manchester considered to be a gay village nowadays?
Not sure but I can think of plenty of other names for itis Manchester considered to be a gay village nowadays?
On that basis, it seems reasonable for andy to ask about the possibilities inherent in a situation he was not familiar with. He now has some (fairly firm!) answers. I am puzzled that some people seem to think he should not have asked.We've all been there, and there is no such thing as a silly question.
There have been incidents in the past with one particular team but they are known throughout Essex for their 'ungentlemanly' approach to all other teams, gay, straight, black, white, ugly, pretty (not many of those in Essex...)
There are always somethings that will affect a player. I had a schools derby game where a lad had lost his mum recently and an opponent who knew situation provoked him with a "your mother" joke making the 13 year old cry. I had him replaced for remainder of the game whereas if he made it normally I probably would have given him a warning. Spoke to coach after game and the young fella apologised to him privately after the game.
Banter is well and good and you dont want to single out a player who might already be uncomfotable but I take a strict line to on-pitch bullying.
Personally I don't think homophobic comments should be tolerated at all. To me they are on a par with racist comments and should be treated the same. Everyone has a right to play this sport and I believes that referees are one of the pillars that protect that right. If I heard it on the pitch I'd RC it. If I heard one of my young players use it they would be given a severe talking to and a repeat would mean they would be looking for another club.
Erm, difficult one. I think on the whole that gay rugby teams are a good thing, IF they are bringing people to the game who would otherwise feel unwelcome. If on the other hand they are taking in players who’d be perfectly welcome at any other club it’s a different matter.There's something different about a gay player in a team, and a 'gay team'.
In the first case the player's sexuality seems to me irrelevant... He's just a rugby player and rugby isn't about your sexuality it's about, well rugby. If someone else on the field makes a thing about it, I'd tell them to leave it out.
But In the second case - a gay rugby club. Well now suddenly sexuality has been brought directly onto the rugby field. It's the gay team that is now making a thing about it. Which is odd. Egregious even.
I am old enough to remember the rugby world being cut in two when teams finally woke up to S Africa and refused to play teams that were selected on racist principles. To be honest I would have to think hard about a new club calling itself London Blacks (even if there were some non-black players in it)
I am just not sure that it moves us in the right direction - to a place where we are colour, and sexuality blind.
The try line being a game that is truly blind to colour, sexuality, religion and nationality.
Gonna make Internationals a bit difficult isn't it? :chin:
and of course the nationality based clubs - London Irish, Welsh and French and Nigerians.
anyone know exactly how many london exile clubs there are? i don't, so looked it up. this might not be a definitive list, but in addition to the above i found:
New Zealand
Cornish
Irish (amateur)
Scottish
South African
probably more too.
whoever said London is an inclusive city was clearly talking bollocks. well, in rugby terms anyway
Let’s keep rugby cosmopolitan and worldly please.
I play rugby in Holland, and have done for 15 years; we just don't have issues with players' nationality, sexuality or any other part of their background here, at least certainly not at my club or the other two clubs where I played.Your irony meter is bust.