A few years back our family went to watch my cousin who played for Saracens. After the match we were waiting for him he came out with JW, they knew each other from junior rugby. We all crowded round our cousin, the guys slapping him on the back the girls touching his cuts and going "Ohh" (except his brilliant sister who said something like "You had an overlap and you ignored it"). JW, waiting patiently for my cousin, stood quietly off to one side with a huge smile on his face enjoying our moment, completely and genuinely unphased. Top guy.