I agree with Shelflife's take on it.
Having fluffed his attempt at kicking the ball, the player should not have continued. By doing so he lets defenders' try saving tackles open to being penalised
[LAWS]
21.4 Penalty and free kick options and requirements
(l) An offside player cannot be put onside by any action of an opponent.
Sanction:
Unless otherwise stated in Law any infringement by the kicker’s team results in a scrum at the mark. The opposing team throw in the ball.[/LAWS]
So no second bite of the cherry. Had a try been awarded, do you think he'd have said,
TJ Perenara said:
"Hang on, I haven't taken the kick yet."
I think there's a difference between a referee being big enough to change his decision, should a player point out his error in LoTG, and a referee getting hoodwinked into letting a player get a second chance at a fluffed penalty taken quickly.
Yes a team may take a quick tap, but having fluffed it, no way you can say "I have not yet attempted it, sir."
Especially if it's a mouthy scrumhalf that has been loudly contesting your calls for the last 40 minutes. Was Gold9 the captain? Why would the match referee have such a conversation? And then let the arrogant sod walk off while your are still talking to them. Call the team captain over straight away and tell the team captain any more of the 9 shouting at him and he will be left with left with very few options.
[LAWS]
10.2 Unfair play
(a) Intentionally Offending. A player must not intentionally infringe any Law of the Game,
or play unfairly. The player who intentionally offends must be either admonished, or cautioned that a send off will result if the offence or a similar offence is committed, or sent off.
Sanction: Penalty kick[/LAWS] The way the quick tap was (not) taken was unfair of Gold9. Repeated infringements (10.3) also merit 10 minutes on the naughty step. Take your pick, scrum to Red or penalty against Gold9 for far too much lip.